Everything about Bride Price totally explained
Bride price also known as
bride wealth is an amount of
money or
property or
wealth paid to the
parents of a woman for the right to
marry their daughter. (
Compare dowry, which is paid to the groom, or used by the bride to help establish the new household, and
dower, which is property settled on the bride herself by the groom at the time of marriage.) In the anthropological literature bride price has often been explained in
market terms, as payment made in exchange for the bride's family's loss of her labor and fertility within her kin group. Compare this
affinal practice with
brideservice, which doesn't rely on a compensatory exchange idiom for ethnological interpretation.
The same culture may simultaneously practice both dowry and bride price.
Many cultures practiced bride price prior to any existing records.
History of the tradition
The
Code of Hammurabi mentions bride price in various laws, as an established custom. It isn't the paying of the bride price that's prescribed, but the regulation of various aspects:
- a man who paid the bride price but looked for another bride wouldn't get a refund, but he'd if the father of the bride refused the match.
- if a wife died without sons, her father was entitled to the return of her dowry, minus the value of the bride price.
The
Hebrew Bible and
Talmud mention the practice of paying a bride price to the father of a minor girl.
The practice of the bride price is found in the
Bible, in the
Old Testament. says:
"And if a man entice a virgin that isn't betrothed, and lie with her, he'll surely pay a dowry for her to be his wife. If her father utterly refuse to give her unto him, he'll pay money according to the dowry of virgins." JPS 1917 (External Link
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"If a man seduces a virgin who isn't pledged to be married and sleeps with her, he must pay the bride-price, and she'll be his wife. If her father absolutely refuses to give her to him, he must still pay the bride-price for virgins." NIV
And if a man entice a maid that isn't betrothed, and lie with her, he'll surely endow her to be his wife. If her father utterly refuse to give her unto him, he'll pay money according to the dowry of virgins. KJV
Deuteronomy 22:28-29 states similarly:
"If a man find a damsel that's a virgin, which isn't betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she'll be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days." KJV
The Greeks practiced bride price in archaic times, and in the
Odyssey,
Telemachus complains of the suitors wooing his mother
Penelope
They are too craven to go to the house of her father Icarius, that he may himself set the bride-price for his daughter, and bestow her on whom he will, even on him who finds favour in his sight.
and the custom lasts into classical times, by which time it had become a token sum of less value than the bride's
dowry.
In Islamic marriage laws,
Mahr is paid (or promised to be paid in case of divorce) by the groom to the bride (as opposed to the bride's father). It is mandatory.
The tradition of giving bride price is still practiced in many
Asian countries although the amount changing hands is more a token amount to continue the traditional
ritual then an actual price-tag attached to the bride-to-be for marriage.
In traditional
Chinese culture, an auspicious date is selected to
Ti Qin (literally meaning "propose marriage"), where both families will meet to discuss the amount of the bride price demanded, among other things. A couple of weeks before the actual wedding, the ritual of
Guo Da Li (literally meaning "performing the rites") takes place (on an auspicious date of course). The groom and a
matchmaker will visit the bride's family bearing gifts like wedding cakes, sweetmeats and jewelry as well as the bride price. On the actual wedding day, the bride's family will return a portion of the bride price (sometimes in the form of
dowry) as a goodwill gesture.
The practice of bride price also existed in
India, where it was considered as a social evil and the subject of a movement to eradicate it in the early 20th Century. Unlike what happened in the case of
dowry, this movement was largely successful, although it has been making a comeback in recent years due to an increasing shortage of women.
In parts of
Africa the validity of a traditional marriage ceremony depends on the payment of a bride price, which can vary from a token amount to an exorbitant sum.
Lobola is a similar tradition in
southern Africa.
This practice contrasts sharply with the poorly understood nuptial arrangement known as
brideservice, which is noted in other regions of the world, such as among
Native Amazonian Peoples, like the
Urarina of
Peru.
The tradition in art
A famous Telugu play "Kanyasulkam" (Bride Price) satirised the practice and the brahminical notions that kept it alive. Though the practice no longer exists in India, the play, and the movie based on it, are still extremely popular in Andhra Pradesh.
A popular Mormon story, Johnny Lingo uses a bride price of a shocking amount in one of its most pivotal scenes.
A novel named "The Bride Price", by Buchi Emecheta.Further Information
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